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Something’s been brewing at The Ordinary — and I’m not talking about the brand’s excellent GF 15% Solution, which has replaced my Botox obsession, or even the new Multi-Antioxidant Radiance Serum, which outperforms every vitamin C in my routine. The real news is a product we’ve all been patiently waiting for, and it’s one that no skincare routine is complete without.

Enter The Ordinary’s new sunscreen: UV Filters SPF 45 Serum, $19.

Longtime fans of The Ordinary will know this isn’t the brand’s first attempt at sunscreen. Some may remember the Mineral UV Filters SPF 30 with Antioxidants, packaged in its signature silver tube. But the thick texture and white cast, typical of many mineral formulas, left much to be desired. True to form, The Ordinary listened to customer feedback and discontinued the product, returning to the drawing board.

It took a few years to get right, but The Ordinary doesn’t do things by halves — and today, the new UV Filters SPF 45 Serum, $19, is finally here. Luckily, I was one of the first beauty directors to try a sample — and trust me, you’ll actually want to wear this one every day.

The Ordinary UV Filters SPF 45 Serum, $19

Is The Ordinary’s new SPF mineral or chemical?

Whether you’re a sunscreen devotee or only remember to apply it occasionally, the question on everyone’s lips is whether the new SPF is anything like its predecessor. Unlike the Mineral UV Filters, this formula is much thinner in texture. While The Ordinary calls it a “serum”, it’s more like a lightweight lotion — easy to apply and absorbed in moments, with no excessive rubbing or blotting required.

The lighter texture is down to the type of UV filters used. The Ordinary has shelved its original mineral filters, opting instead for “chemical” filters — approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Chemical filters absorb harmful UV rays and convert them into less damaging heat that is then released from the skin before it can cause any adverse effects, like sunburn and eventually sun damage.

You’re probably wondering why the brand decided to pivot from its original mineral filters. In a press release, The Ordinary explained that it’s “harder to formulate a truly transparent, lightweight and accessibly priced sunscreen with mineral filters alone.” Using chemical filters, for example, octocrylene and homosalate, means that the product doesn’t leave behind the same white cast as the original. Even better, it’s a dream to apply (more on that later) and affordable at $19.

Is there a difference between SPF 45 and SPF 50?

The Ordinary’s UV Filters SPF 45 is a broad-spectrum sunscreen, meaning it protects your skin from both UVA (which can cause skin cancer and premature aging) and UVB (responsible for sunburn and skin cancer). Most sunscreens have an SPF (sun protection factor) of 30 or 50, which indicates how well they protect against UVB. For example, if you burn after 10 minutes in the sun without sunscreen, SPF 30 lets you stay in the sun about 30 times longer, assuming you’ve applied enough. So why did the brand settle on SPF 45 specifically?

“Contrary to popular belief, the UV filter number is not decided by the brand that formulates the sun-protectant but rather by the formula itself,” says the brand, adding, “When The Ordinary’s product underwent testing, the SPF value that it achieved was SPF 45, which is estimated to absorb only 0.2% less UVB radiation than SPF 50.” The difference between SPF 45 and 50 is only about 1%, so the most important thing is that you’re applying enough. Most dermatologists recommend two finger lengths’ worth of sunscreen for your face and neck.

Is The Ordinary’s SPF 45 any good?

I apply sunscreen every morning, whether I’m leaving the house or not, so it’s fair to say that I have high expectations. Besides being broad-spectrum (UVA can pass through glass, and I work by a large window), my sunscreen has to work with, not against, my combination skin. I want it to be moisturising enough for my dry cheeks but not greasy, so it doesn’t exacerbate my oily T-zone. Happily, this one is just right.

The texture is light yet hydrating, giving my skin a juicy, dewy finish similar to some Korean sunscreens I’ve tried — but at a fraction of the price. Even when I apply two finger lengths’ worth, it doesn’t feel like a chore. It absorbs quickly without feeling uncomfortable or sticky, nor does it sting my eyes. Even better, it’s non-comedogenic, which means it’s less likely to clog pores and cause zits. Most skincare breaks me out, but I’ve been using this for weeks without any issues whatsoever.

The Ordinary also claims it’s suitable for all skin types, including sensitive skin. I actually gave away the mineral sunscreen I was using before because it made my delicate eyelids burn. Thankfully, UV Filters SPF 45 is gentle on my reactive skin; I don’t feel a thing.

While sun protection is the main goal, I love that it makes an excellent anchor for makeup. My foundation and concealer blend seamlessly over the top, and with my skin perfectly quenched, I’m convinced that the final result looks more flawless than before. I attribute this to the ultra-moisturising glycerin and phospholipids, which keep moisture under lock and key, and maintain the skin’s barrier.

A dermatologist once told me that the best sunscreen is the one you want to wear every day. For me, it has to be UV Filters SPF 45, and since it’s cheaper than the others in my bathroom currently, I can stock up.

The Ordinary’s UV Filters SPF 45, $19, is available at theordinary.com

This story was originally published on Refinery29 UK.

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In a world where Latinas are increasingly seeking spaces of healing, joy, and cultural reconnection, a new kind of self-care is taking root. From the highlands of Guatemala to the sacred valleys of Peru, Latina-led wellness retreats are redefining rest and sisterhood through travel that nurtures both the self and community.

Studies have shown that wellness, health, and overall connectedness can improve upon attending a retreat. And the number of retreats offered is growing, thanks to a Global Wellness Tourism Industry that’s expected to hit 1.35 trillion dollars in the U.S. by 2028. And Latinas? We are partaking — we’re carving out spaces for intentional rest, away from the noise of hustle culture and toward a more rooted kind of wellness, one that honors culture, ancestry, and community.

For Mexican-Cuban American Anina Monteforte, founder and CEO of sustainable travel company The World Within Us Travels, her retreats were born from lived experience. Starting to travel extensively in 2015, she knew she wanted to create a space where people could foster their love of travel in group settings. And in 2019, her dream company began.

“We work exclusively with women to empower women in the tourism industry, and partner with sustainable, community-focused hotels,” she says. What began as immersive group trips evolved to include retreats — and, after reading the book “Self-Care for Latinas” by Refinery29 Somos deputy director Raquel Reichard, she set out to work with Reichard to create an intentional, Latina-focused retreat. “I didn’t realize the power that an all-Latina retreat could have. The way we connected and understood each other — it was unlike anything I had ever experienced,” she says of the retreat that took place in Guatemala in 2024.

Monteforte and Reichard’s “Self-Care for Latinas” retreats are more than body movement and journaling (though those are included). They’re also about honoring ancestral practices and cultures — partnering with local guides and healers to host ceremonies like cacao blessings, fire rituals, and, in the case of the upcoming October retreat in Peru, an Incan despacho. “Our trips are more than wellness — we also add elements of cultural immersion, which I believe is necessary and also a part of learning the destination,” she says.

It’s a sentiment shared by Black Panamanian Dash Harris, founder of AfroLatinx Travel, which leads educational and community-building trips that highlight Black history, legacy, spirituality, politics, and contemporary life in Latin America and the Caribbean. While her company doesn’t host retreats in the traditional sense, Harris sees how travel often becomes a form of healing and reclamation.

“For some, it does end up being a retreat into oneself and what they are seeking,” says Harris. “For some, it is to gain more information around their own familial or ancestral lineages, some may want a like-minded community to travel with as all of our participants are serious about learning, and others may simply want to visit a country and learn through the lenses of African history and Black contemporaries.”

Her trips focus on confronting and learning from the realities of anti-Blackness, history, and African diasporic presence in Latin America, all while building solidarity across borders. “Descendants of the African Diaspora should be connecting directly with one another, away from distorted dominant narratives,” she adds.

Whether it’s for spiritual alignment or ancestral reconnection, Latina travelers — especially first- and second-generation women — are now approaching travel differently. “We’re the first to do a lot — have financial autonomy, live alone, start businesses,” Monteforte says. “And often we’re also the first to travel like this. So if your desire is to see the world, go. Don’t let fear stop you.”

These retreats are not one-size-fits-all. Across the country — and the globe — Latina leaders are curating spaces that address everything from burnout and ancestral trauma to joy, sensuality, and creative rebirth. Each retreat offers its own signature flavor of healing, but all share a common thread: creating intentional, culturally grounded spaces where Latinas can feel seen and held.

Raquel Reichard, deputy director of Somos, is hosting the second annual “Self-Care for Latinas” retreat in Peru in October as part of a team-up with Monteforte’s The World Within Us Travels. The retreat is focused on connection and self-care, offering a mix of play, reflection, movement, and rest designed for Latinas.

Robyn Moreno, curanderismo practitioner and author of “Get Rooted,” offers spiritual retreats that guide Latinas back to their Indigenous roots. Her “Get Rooted” retreat at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York, in August is a deep dive into ancestral connection, energy healing, and the sacred feminine — designed to help participants reclaim their power through ritual and intuition.

Dash Harris, a historian and multi-media producer, has multiple educational and cultural trips scheduled this year through AfroLatinx Travel — AfroCuba in July, AfroPanama in August, and the inaugural AfroBrazil in November.

Christine Gutierrez, licensed therapist and author of “I Am Diosa,” hosts soulful “Diosa Retreats” that blend psychology with spirituality. Set in places like Puerto Rico and Bali (the next one is 2026 in Puerto Rico), her retreats explore inner child healing, shadow work, divine feminine energy, and sacred sisterhood. “These are not vacations,” Gutierrez has said. “They are rebirths.”

With more retreats on the horizon, this movement shows no signs of slowing. But it’s not just about booking a pretty trip. “Ask questions,” Monteforte urges. “Does the retreat align with your values? Is it locally led? Are women and Indigenous communities centered?”

For Harris, the answer is even more foundational: “Be intentional with your presence in spaces. In many touristic zones throughout Latin America, visitors are intrigued and seek out Black women who may work as public vendors and artists yet they see little return,” she says. “Travel with a purpose that benefits local communities materially.”

This new wave of Latina retreats isn’t just about escape. It’s about coming home to ourselves — and to each other.

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The first Monday in May is fast approaching, and in the fashion world, that means the biggest topic of discussion on the agenda is the Met Gala. This year, attendees have been tasked with flaunting their finest outfits inspired by the theme “Tailored For You,” nodding to the new Costume Institute exhibition, “Superfine: Tailoring Black Style.”

As we prepare for another evening of head-turning outfits strutting down the sartorial star-studded carpet, we can’t help but recall some of the Met Gala’s biggest fashion moments ever. So, we’re taking a trip down memory lane, revisiting some of our all-time favorite Met Gala looks, from Kate Moss’ Marc Jacobs golden mini dress circa 2009 to Cardi B’s regal Moschino gown from 2018, and even a look or two from last year’s Gilded Glamour theme. Don’t worry, SJP and Alexander McQueen in matching tartan, Naomi Campbell in glittering Versace, and Tyla in Balmain as a sand sculpture that needed to be carried up the stairs also made the cut.

So prepare to be amazed by the ethereal looks and red carpet dresses that have garnered attention every year since the first Costume Institute Benefit in 1948. Click on for our list of the best Met Gala looks of all time.

Rihanna in custom Marc Jacobs, 2025

Rihanna showed up fashionably late to close out the carpet (and reveal that she’s expecting her third child) in custom Marc Jacobs.Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Janelle Monáe in Thom Browne, 2025

Janelle Monáe created an optical illusion in a custom Thom Browne look.Photo: Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images.

Zendaya in Maison Margiela Couture, 2024

For the first of her 2024 looks as co-chair, Zendaya opted for Maison Margiela Couture.PHOTO: DIMITRIOS KAMBOURIS/GETTY IMAGES FOR THE MET MUSEUM/VOGUE

Greta Lee in Loewe, 2024

The Past Lives star stunned in Loewe.PHOTO: DIMITRIOS KAMBOURIS/GETTY IMAGES FOR THE MET MUSEUM/VOGUE

Tyla in Balmain, 2024

 
The Grammy-winning artist made her Met debut in a jaw-dropping Balmain gown sculpted out of actual sand that was so delicate and perfectly tailored to her body, she had to be carried up the stairs. Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Da’Vine Joy Randolph in Gap, 2024

 
Da’Vine Joy Randolph and Gap creative director Zac Posen made denim romantic and whimsical with this draped custom gown.Photo: John Shearer/WireImage

Cardi B in Windowsen, 2024

The Grammy winner shut down the carpet in a jaw-dropping, voluminous gown by Windowsen. PHOTO: JOHN SHEARER/WIREIMAGE

Michaela Coel in Schiaparelli, 2023

The I May Destroy You creator and star dazzled in a gilded, sheer Schiaparelli gown.Photo: Mike Coppola/Getty Images.

Jenna Ortega in Thom Browne, 2023

The Wednesday actress was a standout in this corseted custom Thom Browne look at her first ever Met Gala.
Photo: John Shearer/WireImage.

Anne Hathaway in Versace, 2023

In a year when Anne Hathaway’s red carpet presence has outshone basically everyone, this custom Versace gown was truly the cherry on top. Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Blake Lively in Atelier Versace, 202

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A tribute to New York City’s architecture (and the Statue of Liberty!).

Kim Kardashian in Jean Louis, 2022

Wearing the same dress Marilyn Monroe sported to sing “Happy Birthday” to John F. Kennedy — history in the making.

Rosalía in Rick Owens, 2021

Sometimes all you need is a train and thigh-high platform boots. Photo : John .hearer/WireImage.

Billie Eillish in Oscar De La Renta, 2021

Casually channeling Marilyn Monroe and Grace Kelly for the night. Photo: John Shearer/WireImage.

Congresswoman Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez in Brother Vellies, 2021


Talk about a statement dress.

Photo: Mike Coppola/Getty Images.

Lady Gaga in Brandon Maxwell, 2019

That time Lady Gaga reinvented performance with four outfit changes at the Met Gala. Talk about camp! Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images for The Met Museum/Vogue.

Zendaya in Atelier Versace, 2018

Who else is getting serious Joan of Arc meets Dune vibes from the armored Versace gown Zendaya wore in 2018?
Photo: Taylor Hill/Getty Images.

Carmen Kass in Gucci, 2003

The open neck is the new open back, as proven by Carmen Kass’s iconic red satin Gucci gown from the 2003 Met Gala.Photo: Gucci/Getty Images.

Hailey Bieber in Alexander Wang, 2019

Only Hailey Bieber could make a crystal thong seem like a casual red pink carpet accessory. Photo: Karwai Tang/Getty Images.

Rihanna in John Galliano, 2018

Can we all take a second to memorialize Rihanna’s crystal-covered John Galliano papal look for the Heavenly Bodies themed Met Gala in 2018? Photo: Kevin Tachman/Getty Images.

Naomi Campbell in Versace, 1995

Naomi Campbell always looks fantastic. Full stop. But this dazzling Versace number from the 1995 Met Gala truly is a step above the rest. Photo: Ron Galella Collection/Getty Images.

Ashley Olsen in Dior, 2013

Ashley Olsen was the picture of sunshine at the 2013 Met Gala, where she wore a tangerine shapeless frock courtesy of Dior. Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images.

Cardi B in Thom Browne, 2019

Quilted coats who? We’re opting for quilted gowns only (with feathered details and extra-long trains, of course) from now on. Photo: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Ariana Grande in Vera Wang, 2018

Ariana Grande consistently goes above and beyond in the costume department. But her Sistine Chapel Vera Wang gown for 2018’s Catholic-themed Met Gala was assuredly her most extra look yet. Photo: Jackson Lee/Getty Images.

Kim Kardashian in Mugler, 2019

Straight out of the ocean and onto the pink carpet in custom Mugler might be the only way we want Kim Kardashian to show up anywhere for the foreseeable future. Photo: John Shearer/Getty Images.

Zoë Kravitz in Oscar de la Renta, 2017

Who else freaked out when Zoë Kravitz wore millennial pink to the Met Gala during peak millennial pink popularity? Photo: J. Kempin/Getty Images.

Frances McDormand in Valentino, 2018

Does it get more fabulous than Oscar-winning actress Frances McDormand in avant-garde Valentino at the Met Gala? We’re thinking not.
Photo: George Pimentel/Getty Images.

Lupita Nyong’o in Calvin Klein, 2016

We’d be cheesin’ it too if we looked as extraordinary as Lupita Nyong’o in this sparkling green Calvin Klein number.
Photo: George Pimentel/WireImage.

Jared Leto in Gucci, 2019

It doesn’t get much more camp than carrying a 3D clone of your own head on the red carpet. Nice work, Alessandro Michele. We see you, and we appreciate you. Photo: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Kate Moss in Marc Jacobs, 2009

Kate Moss in this Marc Jacobs gold turban and backless mini combo is golden hour in human form. Photo: BILLY FARRELL/Patrick McMullan/Getty Images.

Saoirse Ronan in Gucci, 2019

Watch out Emilia Clarke, there’s a new Mother of Dragons in town, and it’s Saoirse Ronan in Gucci. Photo: Taylor Hill/FilmMagic.

Lana Del Rey in Gucci, 2018

Lana Del Rey’s Gucci ensemble nailed the 2018 Met Gala’s Catholic theme. Photo: Dia Dipasupil/WireImage.

Jennifer Lopez in Valentino, 2017

The Versace jungle dress might be J.Lo’s most iconic, but we’d argue that this baby blue Valentino gown deserves the #1 spot. Photo: J. Kempin/Getty Images.

Victoria Beckham in Victoria Beckham, 2014

Victoria Beckham in Victoria Beckham. That’s it. That’s the caption.Photo: George Pimentel/WireImage.

Billy Porter in The Blonds, 2019

Not pictured: Billy Porter being carried onto the Met Gala pink carpet Cleopatra style by six very handsome men also wearing gold ensembles by The Blonds.Photo: John Shearer/Getty Images.

Cara Delevingne in Chanel, 2017

The only thing better than Cara Delevingne introducing her sleek new bald ‘do at the Manus x Machina Met Gala was the metallic Chanel pantsuit she wore.Photo: Karwai Tang/WireImage.

Solange Knowles in Iris van Herpen and Brother Vellies, 2018

There’s a reason Solange Knowles goes by Saint Records, and it’s this slick black Iris van Herpen gown, gold angelic crown, and Brother Vellies thigh-high boots. That’s not really the reason, but a girl can dream. Photo: Rabbani and Solimene Photography/Getty Images.

Bella Hadid in Alexander Wang, 2017

Bella Hadid in barely there Alexander Wang needs no introduction.
Photo: Kevin Mazur/WireImage.

Princess Diana in Dior, 1996

Possibly the most iconic of all the Met Gala looks is Princess Diana in a very daring blue Dior slip dress with a matching sapphire necklace. Photo: Patrick McMullan/Getty Images.

Cardi B in Thom Browne, 2018

What’s better than Cardi B’s regal Moschino look? The beaded gown was a major showstopper. Photo: Frazer Harrison/FilmMagic.

Sienna Miller in Burberry, 2006

Talk about glowing. Sienna Miller is a genuine ray of light in this Burberry micro mini. Photo: BILLY FARRELL/Patrick McMullan/Getty Images.

Beyoncé in Givenchy, 2016

No one does latex fashion quite like Beyoncé, especially when it’s designed by Givenchy.Photo: Karwai Tang/WireImage.

Dita von Tesse in Zac Posen, 2014

Old Hollywood glamour doesn’t get much better than this. Photo: Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic.

Erykah Badu in Givenchy, 2014

Erykah Badu deserves the first-place prize for her Givenchy hat game at the 2014 Met Gala. Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images.

Mary Kate & Ashley Olsen in vintage John Galliano for Dior, 2015

Mary Kate & Ashley Olsen in head-to-toe black isn’t exactly groundbreaking, but that doesn’t mean we don’t also love it. Photo: Andrew H. Walker/Getty Images.

Chloe Sevigny in J.W. Anderson, 2015

Every single inch of this J.W. Anderson original on Chloë Sevigny is absolute perfection.
Photo: Karwai Tang/WireImage.

Rihanna in Guo Pei, 2015

Does Rihanna ever not look perfect on the Met Gala steps? Doubtful.
Photo: Taylor Hill/FilmMagic.

Anne Hathaway in Ralph Lauren, 2015

Anne Hathaway took a cue from Little Red Riding Hood with this sexy and sophisticated gold hooded gown courtesy of Ralph Lauren. Photo: George Pimentel/WireImage.

Miley Cyrus in Marc Jacobs, 2013

Miley Cyrus was the definitive punk princess in sheer, netted Marc Jacobs at the 2013 Met Gala.Photo: Rabbani and Solimene Photography/WireImage.

Gwyneth Paltrow in Stella McCartney, 2011

Between the extra-high slit and the extra-low back, this Stella McCartney number on Gwyneth Paltrow is the epitome of sex appeal.Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images.

Madonna in Stella McCartney, 2011

This Stella McCartney cap-sleeved gown was, without a doubt, Madonna’s “Lucky Star.”
Photo: Larry Busacca/Getty Images.

Christina Ricci in Givenchy, 2008

Catch us re-creating Christina Ricci’s pink and red Givenchy look next Valentine’s Day.
Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/WireImage.

Alexander McQueen and Sarah Jessica Parker in Alexander McQueen, 2006

Tartan twinning. Photo: Evan Agostini/Getty Images.

Amber Valletta in Maggie Norris Couture and John Galliano, 2004

The hair! The baubles! The corset! Every detail of Amber Valletta’s Maggie Norris and John Galliano ensemble from the 2004 Met Gala was a win if you ask us. Photo: Evan Agostini/Getty Images.

Marie-Chantal Mille in Valentino, 2001

Have you ever seen anything chicer than Princess Marie-Chantal Mille of Greece wearing Valentino with Valentino? Photo: Evan Agostini/Getty Images.

Yara Shahidi in Dior, 2021

Yara Shahidi took a cue from Josephine Baker and excelled. Photo: Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic.

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Trigger warning: This article discusses disordered eating in a way that some readers may find distressing.

At 30, I’d hoped diet culture and fatphobia were relics of the past. I grew up in the thick of it: girls competing over who could eat less, “you’re so skinny” being the highest form of flattery. If you weren’t thin, you were fat. There was no middle ground. My parents did their best to counter the messages, but school hallways and magazines were louder.

Over the last ten years, after coming off the contraceptive pill at 21, my body gradually changed — from a UK size 8 to a UK size 16. I’ve only recently been diagnosed with PCOS. During that time, the shift in how others perceived me was stark. Strangers, colleagues, even acquaintances suddenly had opinions, and most of them were steeped in fatphobia.

That’s when I found body positivity. As a barely-adult scrolling through Instagram, I found solace in the fat liberation movement — a space built largely by fat Black women who’d been fighting this fight for decades. It gave me language for what I was feeling, and hope that we’d moved beyond the tabloid “whale watch” sections of the 00s. But that hope was premature. The pressure to be thin never disappeared; it shapeshifted, cloaking itself in wellness, productivity, self-optimisation. Fatphobia didn’t die. It just changed costumes.

Which brings us to SkinnyTok, a community on TikTok that many of you will have come across whilst scrolling. And yes, it’s as bad as the name sounds. It refers to a dark subculture on TikTok where thinness is idolized, often aggressively so. Videos show extreme calorie deficits, body checks, “what I eat in a day” routines that hover around 700 calories. Creators document their shrinking figures, sometimes proudly announcing how they’ve “gaslit” themselves into being skinny. One says she goes to the gym every day because she feels “fucking fat”, despite being objectively slim.

TikTok, for its part, has tried to distance itself. Searching for “SkinnyTok” now triggers a warning message: “You are more than your weight.” They banned influencer Liv Schmidt in 2024, known for her “blonde & skinny” brand, after she gained over 670,000 followers. But bans and warnings don’t fix an algorithm that’s still aggressively promoting the very content it claims to protect us from (Refinery29 reached out to TikTok for comment).

None of this is new. We’ve seen it all before. Diet culture has been relentlessly pushed by mass media for decades, from the rise of Weight Watchers in the 1960s, to the heroin-chic supermodels of the 90s, to the carb-phobic 00s with Special K diets and flat tummy teas. In the 2010s, we saw a shift toward “slim thick” (a body type popularised by the Kardashians), which still glorified small waists, just now with curves in the “right” places. But it was still about managing and shaping the body into a narrow ideal. And all the while, fat activists were pushing back.

Progress was made. Terms like body positivity and neutrality entered the mainstream. Plus-size models appeared in major campaigns. For a moment, it felt like we’d broken something open. But the backlash has been intense, and SkinnyTok is a symptom of that.

What’s different now is the reach. TikTok’s scale makes this version of diet culture more insidious than ever, particularly for young users. As body image pressure floods back into the mainstream, we see the same pattern playing out: people in slim bodies feeling the squeeze of impossible standards — standards that fat and curvy people have never been allowed to escape.

Kitty Underhill, model, speaker and body image advocate, tells Refinery29: “As much as celebrity tabloid culture and Tumblr thinspo were so pervasive, SkinnyTok feels like an even more heightened, intense kind of pervasiveness because TikTok has a much larger and significant presence in people’s lives than Tumblr or the tabloids did.” She adds: “When something trends on that platform, it spreads like wildfire.”

Underhill draws a direct line between SkinnyTok and what came before: “The message is the same — thin is best and a signifier of moral superiority, while fat is inherently bad and a moral failing.” She adds: “It’s pro-ana content with more glamour and filters, making thinness seem even more aspirational. One video spoke of how SkinnyTok gave them a ‘reality check’, but it couldn’t be further from that, it’s distorting how we view our own bodies and those that fall outside the trend’s narrow ideals.”

Crucially, she says: “Fatphobia is at the heart of all these body-negative trends. If we don’t confront fatphobia, these movements will simply keep morphing into new forms. It helps us unlearn the belief that fat bodies are bad and thin bodies are inherently good.” This is the crux of the issue: we keep treating the symptoms rather than the root cause. Until fatphobia is addressed systemically — and the prejudices fuelling it are confronted — newer, shinier, and often more harmful body trends will keep emerging.

Therapist and author Colleen Conklin tells Refinery29: “SkinnyTok mirrors earlier manifestations in many ways, especially Tumblr thinspo. The verbiage is centred specifically on being skinny, not healthy, which reveals the toxic aesthetic obsession beneath it.” She adds that today’s teens, who now get smartphones earlier than ever, are particularly vulnerable. Conklin is right, reports have shown that 31% of eight-year-olds had smartphones in 2021 (up from 11% in 2015). She adds that “even with parental controls, content like this can still be accessed, and many teens haven’t developed the media literacy to know it’s not sustainable or healthy.”

What makes this resurgence even more insidious, Conklin says, is that it’s once again drowning out the voices of fat people. “Being in a larger body is still framed as a personal failure, rather than the result of natural body diversity or systemic issues like medical discrimination and a lack of accessible public spaces.” She suggests turning to resources like Fearing the Black Body by Sabrina Strings or the Maintenance Phase podcast to dig deeper. “We all have a role to play,” she says, “even if it’s just voicing discomfort when harmful conversations come up.”

One person who’s lived both sides of it is *Alice, 22. “I got deep into SkinnyTok two years ago,” she says. “At first it felt empowering, like I was taking control. But quickly it became obsessive. I was tracking everything I ate.”

What helped her climb out? “A friend approached me, and asked if I was okay and sat me down for a serious conversation. My weight had dropped quickly, and my hair was thinning. Someone looking from the outside in helped me see that I’d been, I don’t know, almost radicalised?” Alice has blocked certain content and creators from her social media accounts, and is recovering slowly. “SkinnyTok wasn’t the start of my disordered eating, but it definitely preyed on it,” she added.

The crux of the heartbreak here is how easily progress is stripped from us, and how so many of us ignore the wider context around SkinnyTok’s popularity. The recent rise in far-right politics, misogyny, racism, and gender-based violence is mirrored in the hyper-surveillance of bodies — especially marginalised ones. Keeping us preoccupied with thinness is a tactic of oppression, and we’re falling for the same tricks once again.

Fatphobia didn’t vanish, it evolved. Whilst the backlash against body positivity has led some to declare it a failure, what we’re really seeing is the need for more: more fat and plus-size representation, more education, more body neutrality and liberation movements, and honest conversations about things like Ozempic, disordered eating, and health — free from moral panic.

SkinnyTok is part of a wider, long-standing system of oppression, not a standalone moment. It’s using the same language we saw on Tumblr a decade ago, and yet is still persuasive. And so we must all ask: How are we falling for this bullshit again? And then we must resist, resist, resist.

*Names have been changed to protect identities.

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At least once a week — let’s face it, at least once every day — the writers and editors across Refinery29 discuss the latest and greatest products in our lives, from some cool new water bottle that’s been absolutely saving our lives to a state-of-the-art sleep product that’s changed our eight hours for the better. And gatekeeping isn’t in our vocabulary, so we’re here to share the wealth and highlight our favorite products, just for you, each month.

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Tanyel Mustafa, Senior Writer

Photo: Courtesy of Tanyel Mustafa.

I don’t think candles need only be limited to winter. I find a candle relaxing all year round, especially when they’re scented and freshen up my room. The difference though, as we move into summer, is that I like a candle that’s either floral, fruity, or fresh. Something to match the sunshine.

Flaming Colossus is exactly that. It’s zesty and vibrant, as it should be, because it’s an ode to LA’s famous club of the same name. In fact, the whole brand is inspired by iconic dance floors. When I’m having my recovery days after festivals this summer, I’ll be resting with this burning beside me.

Discotheque Flaming Colossus, $, available at Discotheque

I recently got to try The Origin Pool at Damu, the spa located in The Mandrake. Unusually, it’s designed for only one person at a time. It’s a room flooded with soothing sounds, lighting, with a salt water bath as the centrepiece. The salt content is so high that you completely float once submerged, there’s no need to even try to lift your body up.

You lie back in the pool and watch and listen as the lights and sounds around you shift and change. I’d had a stressful week, and although I’m rubbish at relaxing (it takes me a while to settle into activities like this), I noticed the overthinking in my brain melt away. By the end of the 45-minute soak, I’d nearly drifted off.

This experience felt unique. It was nice to try something in the name of wellness that felt different to a usual spa menu. After leaving the salt pool, I was given a delicious rose flavoured tea (other flavours were available) and the chance to decompress before using a private shower and changing area, filled with fancy soaps, shampoos, accessories and a Dyson hairdryer.

All in all, this is as luxurious as alone time gets.

Sessions cost £180 and can be booked here.

Liver health has been on the minds of a lot of young people lately. I decided to give mine a check, too, hoping for some reassurance.

I’m a moderate drinker, who can happily go days or weeks without a drink (I don’t need a glass with dinner), but will then enjoy nights out with booze featuring heavily. Living in Britain though, alcohol does seem to be the hinge that binds so many social events.

The scan measured my liver stiffness and fat level. The less fatty and less stiff it is, the better. My results were good, with both of my readings being on the low side. What was more interesting to me though, is how misunderstood liver health is. The clinician explained to me how much diet plays a huge role in how fatty your liver is. It isn’t just about alcohol.

And what’s also worth knowing, is how quickly the state of the liver can adapt with some positive changes. This year, I’ve reduced my intake of ultra-processed foods, so I wonder how much that will have impacted my reading. Regardless, it’s given me even more motivation to stay balanced and healthy where I can.

A FibroScan can be booked at The Liver Clinic for £249. The Love Your Liver roadshow runs events across the UK, where scans are free.

Susan Devaney, Life Director

Photo: Courtesy of Susan Devaney.

In the Refinery29 office, Damson Madder is a firm favorite. While I may kick about in the British label’s cropped jeans and comfy socks, I never thought I’d own a pair of DM leopard print oven gloves. And yet, here I am, a woman in her 30s just trying her best to find reasons to enjoy time in the kitchen. And do you know whose energy it’s giving me? The one and only Shania Twain. Enough said.
Summer is on its way, right? With the changing of the seasons, comes a switch up to lighter, fresher spirits. Enter: Hepple Gin. From the sleek bottle design (made from locally sourced recycled materials) to the taste of Douglas Fir from the surrounding Northumberland woodland, sipping on this gin makes you feel like you’re on a wilderness stay in nature. What more could you possibly want?

Hepple Spirits Hepple Gin, $, available at Hepple Spirits

Let me repeat it once more for those at the back: Here I am, a woman in her 30s, just trying her best to find reasons to enjoy time in the kitchen. And it’s all about the small things, isn’t it? Just like my DM leopard print oven gloves I simply love my new citrus yellow Toast oil pourer. Handmade in Aubagne in France by artisans at Poterie Barbotine, it’s a well-made kitchen utensil that’ll stay with me for a long time.

Poterie Barbotine Oil Pourer, $, available at Toast

There’s nothing nicer than taking a trip to a winery when the sun is out and it’s a Bank Holiday weekend in England. In April, I indulged in an overnight stay at the Flint Barns on the Rathfinny Wine Estate in Sussex.

Upon arriving, I went on their wine tour which was so insightful to see how it all comes together from behind the scenes. The guide was so knowledgeable about the impressive vast estate, wine production and well…grapes. If you fancy a night’s stay there, you’ll be treated to a three-course dinner (hello, rhubarb with custard and meringue — because dessert is always the best part). And, of course, bubbles! Rathfinny’s sparkling wine is simply a good summer sparkler. As for breakfast? French toast with bacon was definitely needed.

At time of writing, prices start from £282 for two.

Alicia Lansom, Associate Editor

Photo: Courtesy of Alicia Lansom.

After a hip issue forced me to slow things down for a while, I’m finally starting to come back to life thanks to my magician-like osteopath. This means I can finally entertain the idea of becoming, you guessed it, a reformer Pilates girlie.

While I’m a bit intimidated by the influencer-filled videos showcasing perfect form and super fancy studios, I want to find an exercise class that helps me feel strong, so Pilates feels like a good place to start. The only thing is that the grippy socks you need to stick to the reformer machine are all so…boring? Thankfully, I have found these funky, floral-filled designs that promise to make the class a little less scary. Available in three eye-catching colourways, hopefully, they also have magic powers to help me avoid falling flat on my face.

Get A Grip Tangerine Dream, $, available at Get A Grip

A perfect bedside light feels like the key feature of a calming bedroom. The idea of turning on the ‘big light’ in a sleepy space makes me gag at the thought and thus, I have been on the lookout for the perfect ambience-inducing wall lights.

These nude coloured beauties from La Redoute are exactly the type of vibe I’ve been looking for. The 70s bubble style is so chic and the subtle colouring to the glass will go perfectly with my moody, ‘sulking room pink’ walls. Available in nude, red and orange, the hand-blown glass is mushroom-shaped, letting out just the right amount of light. Ideal for reading a good book before bed (or scrolling Pinterest), these lights are the perfect spherical statement.

La Redoute Interieurs Kinoko Tinted Glass Wall Light, $, available at La Redoute

I can’t stand the cold in winter and you guessed it, I can’t stand the heat in the summer either. I’ve had a small rickety old fan for the last few years, but when London decides to heat up, I’m always left sweating buckets and unable to sleep. Another dilemma I have every summer is severe hayfever, so the combination of being itchy and hot feels like a nightmare.

This is why I started looking for an air purifier and cooling fan in one. This model from Dyson promises to get rid of 99.97% of pollutants in your home, including dust and other allergens, which often get worse as the warmer weather arrives. But my major excitement is due to the sheer size of the thing. Forget a tiny desk fan, this bad boy packs serious power, and is essentially an air conditioning alternative. I love being hit with a waft of clean, cool air and I’ll be cherishing this baby all summer long.

Dyson Purifier Cool Gen1, $, available at Dyson

Esther Newman, Affiliate Writer

Photo: Courtesy of Esther Newman.

I’ve always wanted to get into film photography but have just been daunted by all the gear, gadgets and gizmos out there, not to mention the cost of it all, and so have previously tended to stick with cheap disposable cameras — but of course this causes a huge amount of waste (of which no cool film “aesthetic” is worth).

Recently though, I discovered 35MM Co., who produce reasonably priced and easy to use reusable cameras designed with manual film advance and rewind functions, available in an array of fun colors. It’s the perfect entrance into film photography for a beginner like me, and I’ve loved playing and experimenting. Not to mention, printing off and storing my pictures in one of the brand’s beautiful, hard cover, fabric bound photo albums.

35mm Co The Reloader® Reusable Film Camera Green, $, available at 35mm Co

This summer will be my fourth Glastonbury and while I love camping at a festival (truly, it’s the most fun!), my back does not. So, this year, I decided to (finally) retire my sad, sagging inflatable mattress and invest in a camping cot. I’ve already tested this Helinox one out in my living room and it is so comfortable, I easily napped on it on a hungover Sunday afternoon. Plus, it’s light to carry (way lighter than lugging the blow-up mattress and hefty battery-powered pump), and I love that I can store luggage underneath it, freeing up all-important tent space.

Helinox Cot One Convertible, $, available at Helinox

Venus Wong, Senior Writer

Photo: Courtesy of Venus Wong.

Even with the temperatures getting warmer, I’m still committed to soaking my feet in a hot bath every other night using this dried herbal packet. Mugwort is a popular ingredient in Chinese medicine, most commonly used to treat fatigue and improve circulation. My grandmother, who lives in China, uses mugwort oil on her shoulders to relieve joint pain, and this Muihood product claims to help relieve muscle exhaustion and better regular period pain. While I can’t personally vouch for the pain relief properties of this specific mugwort bath soak, I can vouch for its ability to warm up the body. I find myself falling asleep faster (and struggle less with icy feet) on nights I’ve done this foot bath.

Muihood Mugwort Bath Soak, $, available at Muihood

I recently upgraded to a new iPhone, so this highly anticipated collab couldn’t have come at a better time. You’ve probably come across Takashi Murakami’s iconic smiling flower motif before, most likely from the re-issue of his insanely popular collaboration with Louis Vuitton that really defined Y2K fashion. In addition to the flowers, this collaboration with Casetify also incorporates Mr. DOB, a cute mouse avatar that’s a visual stand-in for the Japanese artist himself. Sadly, most of the collection has already sold out, but you can still get your hands on this adorable phone case, which can be customized with your initials.

Casetify Dob, and Then (Blue) Case, $, available at Casetify

Yes, I’m one of those people who can’t stop yapping about how great their air fryer is, but Cuisinart’s newest XXL Air Fryer genuinely has made such a huge difference to our meal prep process and I’ve genuinely enjoyed cooking a lot more as a result. This one comes with a spacious dual-drawer design that cook portions that can feed up to 12 people, and is a huge time saver since you can time two separate dishes to finish at the same time. There are six different cooking functions, including air frying, baking, and roasting. It’s also very easy to clean, as you can pop the drawers into the dish washer. I’ve been using it to make practically every meal, from egg and cheese toasties for breakfast to salmon teriyaki for dinner. I just wish I had invested in one sooner.

Cuisinart Cuisinart XXL10.4L Air Fryer, $, available at Cuisinart

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The first Monday in May is the date fashion lovers have permanently marked on their calendars and ensconced in their minds. Today, it’s here, and, as is to be expected, all eyes are on the 2025 Met Gala.

As is tradition, this year’s soirée is in honor of the Costume Institute’s latest exhibition, “Superfine: Tailoring Black Style,” which opens to the public on May 10 at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York. Inspired by Monica L. Miller’s 2009 book, Slaves to Fashion: Black Dandyism and the Styling of Black Diasporic Identity, the exhibition explores over 300 years of Black style through the lens of dandyism and the intersection of style, expression, power, and resistance.

In terms of a dress code for the Met Gala, this has all been channeled into the theme “Tailored For You,” with early red carpet predictions forecasting creative takes on menswear and suiting, as well as homages to fashion style setters like André Leon Talley and designers like Patrick Kelly. And with Colman Domingo, Lewis Hamilton, A$AP Rocky, and Pharrell Williams co-chairing the event alongside Anna Wintour (with LeBron James acting as an honorary co-chair), and a host committee full of stylish A-listers — like André 3000, Dapper Dan, Doechii, Ayo Edebiri, Edward Enninful, Jeremy O. Harris, Audra McDonald, Angel Reese, Tyla, Usher, and Janelle Monáe — this year’s event guaranteed to bring on the fashion like no other.

Scroll on to discover the best looks from the 2025 Met Gala.

Rihanna

Rihanna in custom Marc Jacobs Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Tessa Thompson


Photo: Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images.

Jenna Ortega

Jenna Ortega in BalmainPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Janelle Monáe

Janelle Monáe in Thom BrownePhoto: Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images.

Tyla


Tyla in Jacquemus Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Cardi B

Cardi B in BurberryPhoto: Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images.

Rosalía

Rosalía in custom BalmainPhoto: Theo Wargo/FilmMagic.

Laura Harrier

Laura Harrier wearing a custom look by Zac Posen designed in the Gap Studio

Photo: Savion Washington/Getty Images.

FKA Twigs

FKA Twigs wearing Wales BonnerPhoto: Michael Loccisano/GA/The Hollywood Reporter/Getty Images.

Maluma and Willy Chavarria


In Willy ChavarriaPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Jodie Turner-Smith

Jodie Turner-Smith wearing Burberry Photo: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Ayo Edebiri

Ayo Edebiri wearing Salvatore FerragamoPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Doechii

Doechii in Louis VuittonPhoto: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Keke Palmer


Keke Palmer in custom Vera WangPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Chance the Rapper

Photo: Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images.

Lizzo

Photo: Savion Washington/Getty Images.

Miley Cyrus


Miley Cyrus wearing Alaïa Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Dapper Dan

Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Cole Escola

Cole Escola wearing Christopher John Rogers Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Hunter Schafer

Hunter Schafer wearing custom PradaPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Megan Thee Stallion

Megan Thee Stallion in custom Michael Kors CollectionPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Tracee Ellis Ross

Tracee Ellis Ross wearing custom Marc JacobsPhoto: ohn Shearer/WireImage.

Lorde


Lorde wearing Thom BrownePhoto: John Shearer/WireImage.

Cynthia Erivo

Cynthia Erivo wearing Givenchy Haute CouturePhoto: John Shearer/WireImage.

Zendaya

Zendaya wearing custom Louis VuittonPhoto: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

A$AP Rocky


A$AP Rocky wearing custom AWGEPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Bad Bunny

Bad Bunny wearing custom Prada
Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Gigi Hadid

Gigi Hadid wearing Miu MiuPhoto: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Diana Ross

Diana Ross wearing Eleven SixteenPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Lupita Nyong’o

Lupita Nyong’o wearing ChanelPhoto: Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images.

Jennie

Jennie wearing ChanelPhoto: Theo Wargo/FilmMagic.

Zoe Saldana

Zoe Saldana wearing Thom Browne Photo: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Jeremy O’Harris

Jeremy O’Harris wearing BalmainPhoto: John Shearer/WireImage.

Tramell Tillman

Photo: Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images.

Sarah Snook

Photo: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Colman Domingo

Colman Domingo wearing ValentinoPhoto: Savion Washington/Getty Images.

Colman Domingo

Colman Domingo wearing ValentinoPhoto: Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images.

Sabrina Carpenter

Sabrina Carpenter wearing Louis VuittonPhoto: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Coco Jones

Coco Jones wearing Manish Malhotra
Photo: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Sydney Sweeney

Sydney Sweeney wearing custom Miu MiuPhoto: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Lewis Hamilton

Lewis Hamilton wearing custom Wales Bonner
Photo: John Shearer/WireImage.

Pharrell Williams

Pharrell Williams wearing custom Louis Vuitton

Photo: Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.

Teyana Taylor

Teyana Taylor wearing Marc Jacobs in collaboration with Ruth E. Carter.Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images/The Met Museum/Vogue.

Ruth E. Carter

Photo: Savion Washington/Getty Images.

Photo: Theo Wargo/FilmMagic.

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Every year, we run through a frustratingly familiar line of questioning with our moms and mother figures: “What do you want for [insert holiday/birthday/gift-giving occasion] this year?” And, every 365 days, the answer is the same: “Oh, I don’t really need anything.” Mo-om! Why are you so difficult to shop for? As a person who’s spent her life doing things for other people, she may not have her personal wishlist at the ready. But when it comes to the hard-to-crack giftees in your life, we’ll happily rise to the challenge.

We combed the internet for inventive, useful, and luxury Mother’s Day gifts that have your impossible-to-shop-for mom’s name written all over them. Whether it’s a viral beauty product, stylish-yet-practical bag, quirky kitchenware, or a customizable gift, there’s a crowd-pleasing present ahead that will delight any discerning mama. Just make sure you get to shopping ASAP to ensure your gift arrives by Sunday, May 11!

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Brightland The Paint & Pour Gift Set

When in doubt, food is always a great gift idea. And this limited-edition extra virgin olive oil and painting set will make for a fun creative activity and countertop statement piece.

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Brightland The Paint & Pour Gift Set, $, available at Brightland

Lululemon Everywhere Belt Bag Large 2L

An oldie but a goodie, Lululemon’s internet-obsessed belt bag is the way to anyone’s heart. This larger iteration is specifically great for moms who need to keep many essentials on hand… while being hands-free!

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Lululemon Everywhere Belt Bag Large 2L, $, available at Lululemon

Rellery Peas in a Pod Necklace

This adorable necklace comes with two to five pearl “peas” so that you and any of your siblings can be represented by it, making it a great group gift idea!

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Rellery Peas in a Pod Necklace, $, available at Rellery

Mark & Graham Raffia Backgammon Game Set

Backgammon is all the rage again, so consider carting up a beautiful set that your mom will be proud to show off and play with her friends. For an extra $15, you can have it customized with a monogram.

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Mark & Graham Raffia Backgammon Game Set, $, available at Mark & Graham

Coach Outlet Corner Zip Wristlet With Crystal

Add a new crystal-embellished wristlet to your mom’s Coach collection this Mother’s Day. The best part? She won’t have any idea you spent under $40 on this Coach Outlet find!

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Coach Corner Zip Wristlet With Crystal, $, available at Coach Outlet

Emily Lex Studio Watercolor Set

Play into your mom’s artistic abilities with a coloring book and watercolor paint set that’ll help her unleash her creativity and unwind. Pick from several design themes to best reflect her interests.

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Emily Lex Studio Watercolor Set, $, available at Anthropologie

Dieux Infinitely Reusable Eye Mask & Eye Serum Bundle

Eye masks are an on-the-go skincare hack for moms, and these ones don’t slip or slide (and won’t go bad after one use). The hydrating eye serum is a nice bonus.

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Dieux Angel Eyes: Reusable Eye Mask & Eye Serum Bundle, $, available at Dieux

SerenityStreetArt Mini Dried Floral Bouquet & Vase

If your giftee is like me, they can’t do anything but sneeze when they’re around flowers. Luckily, dried floral bouquets have been my solution for beautiful blooms that are long-lasting and allergy-free.

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SerenityStreetArt Mini Dried Floral Bouquet, $, available at Etsy

Dinosaur Designs Long Stone Servers

For the hostess with the mostess, a set of servers is a thoughtful gift, and these oversized nature-inspired ones will surely make a statement in any tablescape.

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Dinosaur Designs Long Stone Servers, $, available at FWRD

Doodle By Meg Home is Wherever Mom Is Stationery Cards

You can never go wrong with a sentimental Mother’s Day card. But you can go very right with one that stands out from the cookie-cutter cards at your local store. Luckily, Society 6 has plenty of standout designs, and this one comes in sets of three or 10, so you can hand them out to all the mother figures in your life.

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Doodle by Meg Home is Wherever Mom Is Stationery Cards, $, available at Society6

Laetitia Rouge Perfectly Imperfect Jewelry Plate

Help organize and decorate your mom’s vanity with a “perfectly imperfect” dish that’ll surely put a smile on her face every time she puts on her jewelry.

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Laetitia Rouget Perfectly Imperfect Jewelry Plate, $, available at Shopbop

Anthropologie The Somerset Maxi Dress

Refinery29 editors and readers alike love this top-rated Anthropologie dress — blame it on the stretchy waistline, relaxed fit,  flattering length, and playful prints.

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Anthropologie The Somerset Maxi Dress, $, available at Anthropologie

BonBon Large Candy Gift Box

The Swedish candy that’s taking over the nation (and TikTok) can now be delivered to your mom’s doorstep. Just pick from the various box sizes and candy mixes, and we promise that it’ll be the sweetest Mother’s Day gift.

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Bonbon BonBon Large Gift Box, $, available at BonBon

Rocky Broome Hand-Painted Porcelain Hummingbird Feeder

Whether you’re shopping for an avid bird watcher, garden lover, or porch-sitting giftee, a handpainted hummingbird feeder is a great option to help decorate her outdoor space and attract more flying friends.

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Rocky Broome Hand-Painted Porcelain Hummingbird Feeder, $, available at Uncommon Goods

Victoria Beckham Golden Shimmer Body Oil

This citrusy, shimmery oil will create such a luxurious  glow that she’ll never want to leave the house without slathering it on.

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Victoria Beckham Golden Shimmer Body Oil, $, available at Nordstrom

Hello Postpartum New Mom Mother’s Day Gift Basket

For a new mom, gift a thoughtful, curated gift basket. Or check out this brand’s customizable postpartum boxes, which you can add tons of wellness and lifestyle products to.

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Hello Postpartum New Mom Mother’s Day Gift Basket, $, available at Hello Postpartum

Bandolier Gia Duet Crossbody Phone Case

If your giftee is known for juggling a million things (literally and figuratively) or constantly losing her phone, a crossbody phone case may be the most practical and necessary gift of them all. This style comes with a wristlet chain, plus a pocket for holding quick-to-access credit cards.

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Bandolier Gia Duet Crossbody Phone Case, $, available at Bandolier

Inteo Red Light Therapy Face Mask

Your giftee may not buy the latest craze in wellness — red light therapy — for themselves, so Mother’s Day is the perfect excuse to give them a face mask to upgrade their skincare and get some much-needed R&R.

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Inteo Portable LED Face Mask, $, available at Amazon

Calpak Large Clear Cosmetics Case

When it’s not busy trending on TikTok, Calpak’s fan-favorite cosmetics case keeps miscellaneous toiletries at bay in style. Score it for mom this year, and she’ll wonder why she never put it on her wishlist.

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Calpak Clear Cosmetics Case, $, available at Calpak

Hatch Limited Edition Restore 3

Hatch just released a limited-edition Rosy colorway in its popular Restore sound machine-meets-sunrise alarm. And it may just be the best addition to any mom’s bedside table.

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HATCH Limited Edition Restore 3, $, available at HATCH

Eberjey Renew Plush Long Robe

Give the gift of coziness with a plush bathrobe that’s anything but ordinary. This luxe, extra-fuzzy style promises to keep you warm and swaddled throughout the seasons.

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Eberjey Renew Plush Long Robe, $, available at Eberjey

Osea Your Everything Shower Bundle

An “everything shower” is one of the best opportunities for any mom to escape and unwind. Elevate their routine with a Mother’s Day-exclusive gift set, which includes a nourishing body wash, exfoliating scrub, and glowy oil.

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OSEA Your Everything Shower, $, available at OSEA

Great Jones Little Hottie Ceramic Baker

Whether they love to bake or host potluck parties, the mom in your life will appreciate this colorful ceramic baking dish for cooking and transporting her most delicious concoctions. [Bonus points if you bake a sweet treat for Mother’s Day in it first!]

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Great Jones Little Hottie, $, available at Great Jones

Mother The Boxy Goodie Goodie Supima Cotton Tee

This sweet and spot-on T-shirt is a playful-yet-practical find for the proud mama (or mega fan of LA-based brand Mother).

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MOTHER The Boxy Goodie Goodie Supima Cotton Tee, $, available at Nordstrom

Vyrao Witchy Incense

For the spellbinding mom who’s all about cleansing scents and crystals, these whimsical incense sticks will enhance her space with notes of frankincense, nutmeg, and more.

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Vyrao Witchy Incense, $, available at FWRD

Maison de Sabré Fruit Charm

The viral Maison de Sabré charms are now available in new designs, and we can’t help but want to pick out our mom’s favorite fruit or vegetable. She’ll also appreciate that she can throw an Apple AirTag inside to help track her most-used items (like her bag or house keys).

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Maison de Sabré The SABREMOJI Fruit Charm, $, available at Nordstrom

Quince Mongolian Cashmere Throw

Quince is known for ethically-sourced and reasonably-priced cashmere goods, so why not cart up one of its throw blankets as an elevated Mother’s Day or hostess gift?

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Quince Mongolian Cashmere Throw, $, available at Quince

Lele Sadoughi Nautilus Shell Stud Earrings

Get mom summer-ready with a pair of gold shell-shaped studs that are whimsical enough to spice up her everyday style, but fancy enough to also wear at parties.

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Lele Sadoughi Nautilus Shell Stud Earrings, $, available at Shopbop

Laneige Plump & Hydrate Trio

There’s no going wrong with Laneige, and this new bundle, with the brand’s iconic lip mask and newer Bouncy & Firm sleeping masks, is a no-brainer for the skincare-obsessed.

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Laneige Plump & Hydrate Trio, $, available at Laneige

CeramicsStories Handmade Stoneware Coffee Mug

Keep your mom fueled (with coffee, of course) in a handmade ceramic mug that’s chic and that’ll stand out from the sea of kitschy, mismatched designs in her cabinet.

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CeramicsStories Handmade Stoneware Cup, $, available at Etsy

Vacation High Ceiling Resort Lobby Candle

Sure, your mom may have loads of candles that she’s been gifted and hasn’t used, but does she have one that smells like a luxe hotel lobby and evokes the feeling of being away on vacation? Probably not, and that’s why this scent is the one she’ll actually light.

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Vacation High Ceiling Resort Lobby, $, available at Vacation

Kurt Geiger Kensington Flat Sandal

Whether she’s heading to brunch or the beach, she’ll be pleased to slip into a pair of vibrant and whimsical sandals. And this new iteration of the Kensington sandal has a cute strawberry print that’ll certainly put some pep in her step.

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Kurt Geiger Kensington Flat Sandal, $, available at Kurt Geiger

Lake Pajamas Pima Bundle

We love a good bundle, and we’re sure your mom does too. Luckily, this pajama set comes with shorts and pants so she can comfortably wear it throughout the seasons and weather changes.

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LAKE Pima Bundle, $, available at LAKE

Bathing Culture Meadow Vision Mind and Body Wash

If your mom is someone who appreciates a practical gift more than a bouquet of flowers, consider giving her a biodegradable body wash (in a floral-printed bottle) that smells like a spring meadow instead — and upgrades her shower ritual!

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Bathing Culture Meadow Vision Mind and Body Wash, $, available at Credo Beauty

Steamery Fabric Shaver Pilo No.2

Help mom seamlessly eradicate pilling with the help of this nifty sweater shaver. Its sharp-yet-gentle blades glide across fabrics of all kinds and pick up knots along the way. Plus, its larger design covers more surface area, which makes for quicker cleanups compared to smaller tools.

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Steamery Fabric Shaver Pilo 2, $, available at Amazon

L.L. Bean Customizable Boat & Tote

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Kosterina Oil & Vinegar Mother’s Day Gift Set

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Staud x C.Bonz Custom Classic Oversized Shirt

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Mark & Graham Mini Travel American Mahjong Set

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Kate Spade x Target Acrylic Beverage Dispenser with Woven Stand

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Our Place Mini Cookware Duo

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“Ugly-cute.” “A sense of nostalgia.” “A gremlin on LSD.” “Either you get it or you don’t.” There’s no denying the global cult following that plushie bag charms, and the TikTok-viral Labubu, have garnered — and these are just some of the standout responses fans and collectors shared with me when discussing the trend.

Personalization has made a major comeback, and handbag straps heavily adorned with bag charms are one of the easiest and most joyful ways to customize our everyday pieces. But rather than luxury charms from Loewe, Prada, and Gucci, furry animal-like plushies (like Monchhichi, Miffy, Hello Kitty, and Crybaby) are the hot style, with Labubu being the most viral, coveted plushie charm you can own right now.

I’m talking about the furry, wide-grinning creatures — aka The Monsters — designed by Hong Kong-born illustrator Kasing Lung. Originally a book series character, Labubu became a physical plushie when toy company Pop Mart created them in 2019. They’re sold as limited-edition “blind box” collections (like the popular Macaron series) both online and in Pop Mart stores, so you can never be sure the exact design you’re going to get. “It’s like an accessible lottery ticket. You know you’re gonna win, and it’s gonna be cute,” says Cameron Tarzaban, who works in the cannabis industry. (However, some fans search for specific styles on StockX and eBay to secure the exact design they want.)

But how and why did they get so popular? What’s their appeal? After seeing a London-based artist wearing an orange Monchhichi charm on her tweed Chanel bag, I knew I needed to investigate this quirky high-low trend. So I spoke with several avid plushie collectors (including Labubu loyalists) and bag charm lovers to learn more.

Most interviewees (ranging between Gen Z and millennial in age) discovered Labubus around springtime 2024, seeing them in TikTok unboxings and hauls or being toted around by pop megastars. “People like Lisa and Rihanna — people who are pop culture phenoms and very well-dressed celebrities — having their co-sign obviously is going to make things cool,” says New York-based beauty and style writer Tayler Adigun, who happily got the same pink Lychee Berry style that Rihanna was pictured wearing on her Louis Vuitton Soft Speedy bag.

Social media manager, Blossom Ruby Brown, similarly says: “I got into Labubu right after Lisa started posting about them. I’m not a K-pop girl, but it was through the virality that Lisa brought to Labubu that then brought it to my For You Page.”

Many have been interested in bag charms for even longer, though, with several interviewees collecting them while traveling to places like Japan, France, South Korea, and Taiwan. Freelance fashion writer Shelby Ying Hyde noted that bag charm personalization has been part of Asian culture for a long time, and explains: “I went to Japan and that further progressed my interest in this. I noticed that everyone had some sort of plushie keychain, whether they’re Gen Z or an older man going to the office. It seems to be a way for people to show a level of individuality and personality.”

So how do people style their Labubus and the like? Culture freelance writer Sofia Viera shares: “Last year, I was going into the office again so I needed a work bag, but it wasn’t going to be boring because I’m not boring. My first one was a backpack with a Sanrio plushie.” They also explained that they intentionally buy specific plushies for specific bags, noting that they pair especially well with puffy Baggu bags.

Houston-based senior sales engineer Alexa Peavey does a few things with her Labubu: attaches it to her travel backpack, to her vintage Fendi bag, or ties a skinny silk scarf into a bow onto it. Meanwhile, global PR and event planner James Hagenberg adds his Labubu, Tamagotchi, and additional charms onto a carabiner, which he swaps between bags or his pants’ belt loops.

Similarly, Tarzaban, enjoys attaching their Labubus onto their belts, saying: “Once you break free of the mold that there are rules, you can put that Labubu anywhere, and that’s really freeing.”

But there’s more context for why these plushies have amassed so much popularity and global fascination. And one of the major reasons seems to be a craving to reconnect with our inner child. “We lose that innocence and magic that we had as kids. So these collectibles and these plushies kind of enhance that feeling for us again,” says New York-based editor Jane Kim. “I feel like we’re able to bond and connect and giggle, and it just brings that child-like bond of trading toys.”

Nostalgia, and the mood-boosting feelings that come with it, is therefore another contributor to this trend’s success. “As someone who grew up in the Claire’s and Icing era, it feels very nostalgic,” says Ying Hyde.

London-based content creator and writer Amy Stockwell — who had Monchhichi-designed nails at the time of our chat — adds: “I think for a lot of people it gives them a sense of nostalgia. I love that people are discovering collecting again, or a fascination with toys.”

Likewise, publicist Simone Francese — who previously ran a Japanese nail art salon and discovered Monchhichis and Sonny Angels through her technicians and customers — explains: “I looked at it and I totally got it. It hits home to my Sanrio heart going to the mall as a pre-teen.” Francese also thinks: “It’s sort of like a little escapism. And it’s not this designer piece that you saved up for. It’s something that everyone can pretty much take part in.” She adds: “It’s so insane looking. It literally looks like a gremlin on LSD. I think it’s so playful in a time that also feels very serious. Either you get it or you don’t.”

Labubu, and collectible plushie keychains in general, have created a kind of subculture and meaningful communities. Peavey called them out as a conversation starter, and Viera claims that they’re a great way to make friends in the wild. Tarzaban agrees, explaining: “Since we’re in such a digital age, we crave something physical so deeply, and this is a bond that you can have with people, unspoken.”

Several interviewees also shared that Labubus allow under-represented communities to connect and joyfully express themselves. Stockwell shares that her love of collecting trinkets brought Labubu to her attention. “I collect from a point of view that makes me happy because I’m autistic,” she says. “If there’s a whimsical little guy that’s like a weird figurine, I’m going to buy it.”

Brown, who affectionately calls Labubu “ugly-cute,” says: “I have always been someone who reconnects with my younger self, and my transition kind of forced me to nurture my younger self in certain ways. And I actually think that a lot of what’s going on with Labubu right now around the world is that people are finding comfort in easily accessible comfort.”

Meanwhile, Adigun further explains her connection to Labubu. “As a Black woman, I don’t want to have something that doesn’t necessarily represent me. For example, Sonny Angel — I can feel excluded from those things. It’s a little white baby, which is cute, but doesn’t really make sense for me to have on my phone. So, these little monster babies are just furry and hairy. It’s a little bit easier for me.”

While Labubus used to be more accessible to buy, the limited-quantity drops combined with a rapid rise in popularity have made the shopping experience somewhat stressful for people, since they tend to sell out almost instantaneously, leaving fans with empty carts.

This has also prompted a larger discussion on whether people are buying them for joy, or for clout. “I think for a lot of people, it’s because their favorite celebrity or influencer is buying them, which I find quite disheartening,” says Stockwell, adding: “It’s become more of a cultural icon; like a status symbol to have one now, rather than it actually having any enjoyment for a lot of people.”

But interactive museum worker Lana Humes embraces the attention her Labubu brings. “I’ve had people stop me on the street to compliment it. One time a girl said it was the first one she’d seen in person and she asked to hold it. It’s like its own little celebrity!”

And when predicting the longevity of collecting and styling Labubus and plushie bag charms, some consider them a fad (“I enjoy it and I think it’s silly and fun, but it definitely will be a faux pas in a few months,” says Hagenberg), while others favor them lasting (“It gives me hope that this trend will last for a long time since it is tapping into something we used to do in the past,” says Adigun).

Speaking with fans and collectors genuinely filled me with joy because of their joy and enthusiasm. Learning about this whimsical universe and everyone’s personal reasons for accessorizing with plushies was eye-opening, and revealed just how prominent “little treat culture” has become in culturally serious times. (I see a plushie keychain every time I leave the house now.)

So if you want to experiment with styling plushie bag charms, like myself, don’t stress over getting the newest (impossible-to-cart-up) style. Instead, get excited to discover and gradually collect playful designs that speak to you and make your inner child’s heart sing. Then, when you look at your bag, you’ll get — as Kim says — a “boost of serotonin.”

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I remember the first time I went shopping for concealer at the drugstore. I was probably 14, and was so excited to start trying makeup looks inspired by my favorite YouTube beauty gurus. I’m mixed-race Japanese-American, with olive skin that usually falls into the light-medium range. I looked at the darker shade options of a popular mass brand’s concealer, already bummed that the overwhelmingly peachy, cooler undertones made my olive skin look grey. I left the store with a serviceable option, but didn’t feel great about it.

In 2025, Maybelline is making sure no one has that experience again — and for Global Brand President of Maybelline New York Trisha Ayyagari, it’s a mission that hits home. “Growing up, I’ve always loved beauty,” she tells Refinery29. “I will never forget how I was unable to find a shade that matched my skin and how disappointing that was.” To celebrate Asian Pacific American Heritage Month, Maybelline (in partnership with Bustle Digital Group and Gold House) has unveiled a history-making campaign called Face the Difference, spotlighting its bestselling Fit Me foundation (which comes in 40 shades and has a 97% match success rate).

“From the start, the notion of Fit Me was to make people feel represented both in the shades and the products, but also in all of the campaigns and activations that we do,” Ayyagari says. Featuring 40 AAPIH creatives, athletes, business owners, and more, Face The Difference is spotlighting the diversity that exists in the Asian community. The impressive cast of Maybelline’s campaign includes Jenn Tran, the first-ever Asian-American Bachelorette, Jing Gao, founder and CEO of the popular (and delicious) Fly By Jing, Olympic figure skater Maia Shibutani, content creator Cynthia Victor, and Svetha Nallapaneni, professional dancer and Radio City Rockette.

“Maybelline has long championed the idea that beauty is for everyone,” said Alex Wang, Brand Marketing Director of Maybelline, who helped bring the campaign to life. “This campaign is a powerful extension of that legacy, celebrating the strength and richness of the Asian Pacific community through a modern, comprehensive lens with our wonderful partners at Bustle Digital Group and Gold House.” Teaming up with Gold House, the 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to amplifying and investing in Asian Pacific leadership and voices, Maybelline is making sure this initiative is much more than just another beauty campaign with pretty faces.

In addition to the cast of talent, Maybelline enlisted a team of creatives (including makeup artists, hairstylists, photographers, and more) to ensure representation behind-the-scenes in addition to in front of the camera. “It was just an incredible day to celebrate our heritage,” says Ayyagari of bringing the campaign to life on set.

“It’s not just the products matching, but it’s also being able to see yourself represented,” she says. “Confidence is often based on being able to identify with other people. And so ensuring that our campaigns represent as many different skin tones, backgrounds, genders as possible has been a big priority of mine, and is truly aligned with the values of the brand.”

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