Month: March 2025

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This is not a drill: Reader-favorite Nordstrom just blessed us with a sitewide sale on its A+ beauty assortment. From now through March 30, you can score 15% off almost all the retailer’s hair, makeup, skincare, fragrance, and more. (Bonus: Nordy Club members get triple points on all beauty.)

Nordstrom is home to some of the best names in beauty — think Charlotte Tilbury, Nars, La Mer, Nécessaire — all marked down for this extra-special spring sale: (A few brands and products are excluded, including Chanel, Dyson, Shark, Sisley Paris, Victoria Beckham Beauty, and more.) With pages of covetable beauty picks to sift through, we did the legwork and rounded up 10 must-shop finds from Nordstrom’s major beauty blowout.

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Nécessaire The Body Wash, $28 $23.80

If we had to choose one product from editor-beloved Nécessaire, it would be this one. This luxurious body wash comes in subtle scents like santal, hinoki, and eucalyptus, setting the stage for your ultimate everything shower.

Clinique Almost Lipstick, $25 $21.25

TikTok made it famous, but Black Honey’s real power is in its universal appeal. The sheer, warm cherry-brown shade is truly a one-swipe wonder — no mirror needed.

La Mer Crème de la Mer Moisturizing Cream, $200 $170

A rare discount on La Mer’s iconic cream is no small deal. Infused with the brand’s proprietary Miracle Broth, this decadent formula leaves skin feeling softer, smoother, and naturally radiant.

Nars Radiant Creamy Concealer, $32 $27.20

This cult-favorite concealer has outlasted others for a reason With its skin-like finish and never-cakey coverage, it’s in a league of its own.

Supergoop! Glowscreen SPF 40 Broad Spectrum Sunscreen, $38 $32.30

Turn up the glow with Supergoop!’s highlighter-sunscreen hybrid. With broad-spectrum SPF 40 protection and a luminous finish, it’s a summer essential in shades like rose gold, champagne, and bronze.

Dior Addict Lip Glow Balm, $40 $34

It doesn’t get more posh than Dior’s Lip Glow Balm, closely resembling an objet d’art more than a lip balm. Housed in a vintage-inspired tube, this pH-reactive balm delivers a sheer tint that adjusts to your unique tone — choose from pale pink, icy blue, tangerine, and more.

Olaplex Nº9 Bond Protector Nourishing Hair Serum, $30 $25.50

Olaplex’s bond-building magic now comes in serum form. Lightweight and hydrating, it shields hair from heat up to 450° while leaving strands smooth and nourished.

Westman Atelier Baby Cheeks Blush Stick, $48 $40.80

Cream blush done right. Gucci Westman’s Baby Cheeks blends like a dream and comes in a range of flawless shades — the perfect addition to your spring routine.

​​Charlotte Tilbury Lip Cheat Lip Liner, $25 $21.25

There’s a reason Charlotte Tilbury’s lip pencil has cult status — the ultra-creamy, long-wearing formula perfects your pout with precise, pigmented definition.

Gucci Flora Gorgeous Gardenia Eau de Parfum, $138 $117.30

Floral perfumes just hit different. Gucci’s Flora Gorgeous Garden blends white florals, jasmine, and pear blossom for a bright garden party mood.

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Refinery 29’s Global Fashion Director Irina Grechko knows a thing or two (or twenty-two!) about what makes a good fashion investment. Watch this space monthly to get answers to all your shopping questions, and insights on the season’s top trends and covetable styles, as Irina shares her shopping picks as if it’s her job… because it is.

After years of working in fashion and traveling everywhere from Japan to London and Iceland for work, I’ve got my packing down to an art — I rarely bring more than I need (if only so I have room in my suitcase for all the destination shopping). I have my favorite luggage brands (Rimowa and Away), my must-have travel jewelry and cosmetics cases (Tumi), and, most importantly, my go-to outfit formulas.

In terms of the latter, what has helped me streamline my packing is to identify the “theme” of the trip. If I am traveling for Fashion Week, I start planning outfits with shoes, which need to be comfortable — as I am constantly on the move and need to be able to jump on a subway or walk briskly when running late — but presentable. If I am going on a more leisurely trip, I will pick a few colors and plan looks around them for maximum outfit combos. Regardless of where I go, every piece of clothing needs to work with at least two other pieces in my suitcase.

Most recently, this technique has served me when I was away for 10 days in Paris during Fashion Week. Ahead, my go-to packing list.

Packing List: Shoes

As with every work trip, I started packing for Paris by deciding on the three pairs of shoes I would bring. All had to pass the on-the-go test, ranging from shoes comfortable enough to sleep in (not really but you get the picture) to evening shoes that I can walk and stand in for at least four hours. I settled on ultra-comfortable sneakers from a past Adidas x Bad Bunny collaboration for the busiest days (my second favorite “fashion sneakers” are from the Adidas x Wales Bonner partnership), heeled loafers from French brand Nomasei for the slightly less busy days, and my forever favorite knee-high stilettos from Larroudé for evenings.

Packing List: Pants

Next step is looking at the bottoms that will work with my shoes. When settling on a color palette for a work trip, I tend to stick to neutrals for maximum versatility and outfit options. For me, this tends to mean dark-wash, tailored jeans; a go-with-everything white denim midi skirt; and a pair of classic navy, black, or olive trousers (I went with navy this season).

Packing List: Tops

I don’t overthink tops when traveling, packing my favorite tried-and-true (if boring) tees, button-downs, and sweaters. In addition to the staples, I bring blazers that can also double as tops (see photo above), as well as turtlenecks for extra texture or a pop of color (Pleats Please Issey Miyake styles work great for this).

In the last two months, no top has gotten more traction in my closet than this Mango blouse. I throw it underneath suits (see photo below), leather jackets, and sweaters for an instant element of drama that elevates what could otherwise be perceived as a basic look.

Packing List: Suit

Speaking of suits, after years of bringing dresses that I would wear only once on trips, I began to pack skirt and pant suits instead. These are so versatile — not only can you wear a matching set together for a look that doesn’t take more than a few minutes to put together (great for mornings when you’re running late), but you can also sport them separately with other items in the suitcase. I love the look of a wool pant tucked into a high-knee boot, or a striped blazer over a more casual mariniere tee or an athletic polo shirt.

Packing List: Outerwear

Some fashion editors consider coats the most important part of the outfit during the cold-weather season. And while that’s true — when editors run from show to show in February, their outerwear is the only thing you see — if I were to bring a coat for every day of PFW, I would have to lug two suitcases and still not have room for anything else.

Instead, for versatility, I tend to stick to a few oversized outerwear silhouettes. That way, I can create layered looks underneath and cheat the image of more looks than I actually have in my suitcase by wearing the jackets open and closed. This waxed Barbour jacket (a signature of the brand for a very good reason) looks equally good with a sweater underneath as over it. Meanwhile, the Mango leather jacket with adjustable zippers that move both ways (photo below) can be worn to highlight the top or the bottom part of the outfit.

Packing List: Accessories

Shoes aside, my accessories are limited to three handbags — two medium-sized crossbodies and an evening-appropriate (and flat) bag that could range from an oversized clutch (see suit photo) to a small shoulder style (photo above) — in solid colors that go with every possible look, as well as a mix of chunky gold and silver earrings that can dress up a simple outfit.

After years of receiving scarves as gifts, and thanks to my Instagram algorithm that’s now filled with styling hacks, I’ve begun to take advantage of my collection and adding them to my must-pack list, not only wearing them around my neck but as ties, belts, headbands, and bag accessories.

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Growing out my nails has never been my strong suit. Until recently, I could barely make it a few weeks before breaking one while doing something as untaxing as zipping up my jeans, let alone facing every nail’s nemesis: the ring pull on a can of Coke.

To give them a fighting chance, I’d take skin, hair, and nail supplements like they were going out of fashion, wear gloves while carrying out even the smallest of chores, and refrain from using my nails as tools to open my mail (we all do it). Frustratingly, none of those things worked. What I needed was some expert guidance.

Over the past year, I’ve collected tips and tricks from nail technicians, dermatologists, and even TikTok’s manicure obsessives. But I won’t gatekeep. These are the six simple, and most importantly, affordable, pieces of advice I was given for longer, stronger nails that actually worked.

I chose cuticle oil over nail hardeners

Dr. Dana Stern, board-certified dermatologist and founder of Dr. Dana says that the cuticle is the nail’s natural protective seal. When it becomes dry and dehydrated, it’s compromised: “When this happens, water and moisture can enter the nail unit,” she says. “This causes all sorts of problems including redness and swelling,” and eventually, the nail could grow irregularly: “Think white patches, bumps, thickening, and discoloration,” she says.

While most nail technicians will trim or remove dead cuticle skin during a manicure for aesthetic reasons, using cuticle oil still offers multiple benefits for the remaining skin surrounding your nails as I’ve discovered: “Regular application of cuticle oil helps maintain hydration,” says Dr. Zainab Laftah, consultant dermatologist and British Skin Foundation spokesperson. “Hydration benefits both the nail and surrounding skin by reducing brittleness, enhancing nail health, supporting healthy nail growth, and preventing infections,” she adds.

Unlike nail hardeners, which can make nails a little too hard, session manicurist Ami Streets says that cuticle oil keeps nails flexible, withstanding everyday wear and tear. “Cuticle oil is the best product for growing nails — and my most recommended item to add to your beauty routine,” she says.

Dr. Dana recommends her Nourishing Cuticle Oil, $18, with jojoba oil and indigo naturalis, a Chinese plant known to repair and strengthen the skin barrier. Complete with a handy roller ball for easy, drip-free application, it’s an oil I can vouch for having used it down to the very last drop. Another of my favorites is Sally Hansen Vitamin E Nail & Cuticle Oil, $7.49, with moisturizing vitamin E and a dream team of nourishing plant oils. Streets also loves L’Occitane Shea Nail & Cuticle Oil, $22, which is twice as moisturizing as the impressive hand cream in the same collection, and Jessica Phenomenoil, $20.40, another oil we’ve both used up.

Besides ingredients, exactly how you use your cuticle oil matters, too. Streets says that a single drop on each cuticle is ample — and it’s best applied at night to give the oil time to absorb. Not only does cuticle oil hydrate deeper than hand creams, but Streets and Dr. Dana say that the massaging motion could help stimulate circulation and promote nail growth, too.

I switched from traditional gel to builder gel — or BIAB

Not all gel nail polish is created equal. On my brittle nails, most would chip quickly. I’d then pick off the polish and damage my nails even further. It wasn’t until a fellow beauty journalist recommended Builder in a Bottle — also known as BIAB or builder gel — that my nails grew long and strong. I’m almost a year in and I haven’t had a single chip or break. They’re growing so quickly, that I always ask my nail technician to cut them down.

“Builder in a Bottle is a specific type of gel that lends strength and structure to natural nails,” explains Streets. Thanks to its stronger base, Streets says that it’s a great option for those who want to reinforce their nails while trying to grow them, as they can last up to three weeks. Another great thing about BIAB is that it can be infilled, says Streets. This involves getting the grown-out gap near your cuticles filled in with more gel, rather than having to fully remove the polish each time. “This allows natural nails to maintain growth,” adds Streets, but she recommends a maximum of two to three repeated infills before having a short break to keep your nails healthy and happy.

Thanks to BIAB’s harder, more durable finish, Dr. Dana says that it not only serves as a “protective armor” for nails, but it typically has a forgiving, less damaging removal process by soaking off, so it tends to be more advantageous than other nail enhancements like acrylics. “I’ve seen patients who use BIAB and have very healthy nails in comparison to my patients who wear acrylics and do constant soak-off gels,” she says, adding that BIAB’s durable nature also makes it a good option for nail biters.

I addressed my vitamin D deficiency

When a blood test revealed that my vitamin D levels were low, I began taking a 2000 IU vitamin D supplement daily alongside my trusty omega-3, 6, and 9. While there are multiple health benefits to both, Dr. Laftah points out that they could have additional advantages for nails: “Addressing a vitamin D deficiency can improve nail health as low levels can result in brittle nails,” she tells me. Interestingly, one small study suggests that hapalonychia — a condition that causes nails to become soft and prone to breakage — has been associated with vitamin D deficiency. As for omega-3? “Incorporating omega-3 fatty acids into your diet may also benefit nails by providing essential nutrients that support overall nail strength and integrity,” Dr. Laftah says.

However, Dr. Dana points out that no robust studies prove that vitamins or supplements benefit nail health. However, since nails are made of keratin (a type of protein) she suggests that if your diet lacks sufficient protein, it may be worth considering protein supplementation to improve the condition of your nails. Streets also advises incorporating more protein into your diet and drives home the importance of staying hydrated.

Before adding supplements to your routine, consult your doctor to ensure they’re safe and suitable for you.

I took hand cream very seriously

Previously, I’d only use lotion when my hands were uncomfortably dry and on the verge of cracking. Over the past few months, though, I’ve taken moisturizing very seriously, and I’m convinced that keeping my hands adequately hydrated throughout the day has also benefited my nails.

I was right. For clients who want longer, stronger nails, Dr. Laftah recommends moisturizing regularly to maintain hydration. “Using a nourishing and hydrating hand cream can help,” adds Streets. “Not only does it keep skin in a supple and soft condition, but it can also act as a protective barrier against environmental stressors,” — like cold weather. Streets says that dry, cracked skin and cuticles can lead to infection or weak nail growth, so consistent daily use of a moisturizing product is essential.

If you want fast hydration without the sticky feel, I love Aveeno Daily Moisturizing Hand Cream, $15. If your hands are especially dry, my all-time favorite hand lotion is L’Occitane Shea Butter Hand Cream, $43. The silky soft feeling sticks around for hours — even post-hand-wash. “On application, make sure you use a massaging motion,” advises Streets. “It can help to boost blood flow to hands and cuticles, which supports new nail growth even further.”

I started using a glass nail file

Dr. Dana believes that many nail files, particularly traditional, rough emery boards, can be too abrasive for natural nails, potentially causing “microscopic tears” that lead to splits and breakage. That’s where glass or crystal nail files come in. On days when I gave my nails a break from BIAB, I’d file away rough edges with a glass file, which I’m certain is kinder on nails.

“In contrast [to emery boards], glass creates a perfectly smooth, split-free edge to the nail,” says Dr. Dana, who uses the Precision Glass File, $15. Likewise, Streets believes that a glass nail file is a worthwhile investment for at-home manicures: “They provide a finer and more controlled filing experience, and the smooth edges help seal the keratin layers at the nails edge, preventing splitting, peeling, and snagging that can occur when using a rougher emery board.” What’s more, Streets points out that glass nail files are non-porous and can be washed or sanitized between uses.

Lastly, I exfoliated my nails

With its ability to exfoliate the skin, leaving it smoother and brighter, glycolic acid is a staple in many skincare routines, but it can benefit your natural nails, too. In between BIAB appointments, I’ve often applied a glycolic acid toner to my nails and cuticles using a cotton swab, then followed with a glug of cuticle oil. The result? Fewer flakes and a stronger, smoother canvas for nail polish. If you’d rather not DIY, try the Dr. Dana Nail Renewal System, $30, a once-weekly, 3-step nail system that boasts glycolic acid, a nail primer, and a hydrating gel-oil to reveal healthy, hydrated, and shiny nails, fast. “It’s perfect for brittle, peeling, weak nails, post-gel damage, or if you simply want a gorgeous, healthy-looking shine without having to go to the salon,” says Dr. Dana.

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Incels, Andrew Tate, male rage and the menacing Manosphere: These are the images that come to mind when I think of the prominent themes grappled with in Adolescence — Netflix’s new hit show that has viewers in a chokehold. What doesn’t come to my mind, however, is an agenda to demonize white British boys and men. And yet, despite the series’ growing critical acclaim, countless social media users are in uproar over the series’ depiction of a very young, white male murder suspect — with some even stating that it should have been a Black boy instead. The series’ true message of preventing gender-based youth violence is at risk of being hijacked by reactionary rhetoric.

Written by Jack Thorne and British actor Stephen Graham, Adolescence tells the story of 13-year-old Jamie Miller, a quiet, shy boy from a white working-class family in Yorkshire (played with haunting precision by novice actor Owen Cooper), who, one morning, is unexpectedly arrested on suspicion of the murder of his classmate, 13-year-old Katie Leonard. But unlike most shows centred around a mysterious murder, Adolescence is not a “whodunnit”, but a “whydunnit”, as Thorne describes it, and the aim of the series is to investigate the reasons why a teenage boy like Jamie brutally stabbed Katie to death.

The four-episode miniseries made its debut on March 13 and amassed 24.3 million views within its first four days, making it the streaming platform’s most-watched TV show in the UK right now. This isn’t surprising considering how masterfully the show explores the impact of social media’s “red pill” content on young boys, shaping misogynistic attitudes towards women and girls.

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The race debate is derailing much-needed dialogue about youth gender violence

Adolescence’s message is clear as day. It’s a show about the dangers the digital ‘Manosphere’ poses to the social development of vulnerable, disenfranchised adolescent boys, who are susceptible to being indoctrinated with misogynistic ideas. Writers Thorne and Graham have been very vocal about this, with Graham saying that he was inspired to create the show after reading about two instances of a teenage boy killing a teenage girl. They are even calling for the miniseries to be “shown in schools and parliament” to help prevent the escalation of youth gender violence.

Several UK politicians such as Prime Minister Keir Starmer, Labour MP Anneliese Midgley, and Ireland’s Deputy Prime Minister Simon Harris have endorsed the idea of showing the drama in schools, with Starmer suggesting that this could contribute to wider efforts to tackle the  “abhorrent violence carried out by young men, influenced by what they see online”.

Despite the creators clarifying Adolescence’s hard-hitting message — and politicians (and anyone actually paying attention) celebrating it — some have distorted this valuable, life-saving message into something sinister and calculated.

After finishing the last episode, teary-eyed from witnessing the devastating impact of Jamie’s actions on his family, I was surprised to see social media users criticizing the show. It seems their issue wasn’t with the acting or storytelling but with the decision to cast a white boy as Jamie. Some have claimed this choice was part of an “agenda” to demonize white boys and misrepresent them as the primary perpetrators of youth violence, especially because Graham was inspired to make this show after reading about the tragic 2023 killing of 15-year-old Elianne Andam, who was stabbed by then 17-year-old Hassan Sentamu in South London.

According to these critics, since Sentamu is Black, the show’s creators should have cast a Black actor to play Jamie to better represent the reality of gender violence trends. What they are omitting, however, is that Graham also said that he drew inspiration from the fatal stabbing of 12-year-old Ava White by a 15-year-old white boy in Liverpool’s city centre.

What’s frustrating is that, in 2025, we even have to recount such terrible tragedies just to make the point that youth gender violence is a problem across all communities in the UK.

Under a Politics UK thread, one user accused the show of portraying white boys as the true threat to women’s safety, instead of “foreigners with machetes”, while another claimed the casting was part of a “racial attack on white Britons”, adding that “the only discussion that needs to be had is why high-crime blacks are in the UK at all.”

One comment, which received over 5,000 likes, came from journalist and former Reclaim Party deputy Martin Daubney, who posted a bar graph from the Centre of Migration Control, which shows the nationalities of sex offenders. He wrote, “If Netflix & the government really want to address toxic misogyny in Britain, make a documentary based on facts?”, citing that foreign nationals were “71% more likely to be sex offenders”.

These claims ignore countless examples of white British men and boys who have committed atrocious crimes against women and girls like 12-year-old Ava White. In July last year, Kyle Clifford killed his ex-girlfriend Louise Hunt, and her sister Hannah with a crossbow after fatally stabbing their mother, Carol Hunt, eight times. Incidents like this prove that gender violence isn’t committed exclusively by men of color or immigrants. It’s a problem that knows no racial or cultural boundaries. What’s frustrating is that, in 2025, we even have to recount such terrible tragedies just to make the point that youth gender violence is a problem across all communities in the UK.

Honestly, who would ever have thought that in modern-day Britain, white people would be complaining about casting a white actor in a protagonist role? Oh, the irony. Wasn’t it just the other day that people were up in arms about Halle Bailey being cast as Disney’s ‘Little Mermaid’? Or that customers threatened Sainsbury’s with a boycott for releasing a Christmas advert featuring a Black family? (The horror!) Fast forward to today, when we have influential figures like Martin Daubney weaponizing well-meaning campaigns for diverse representation against Black people and using them to fuel reactionary politics. So, we can’t play mermaids or fun-loving families, but we most definitely should play cold-blooded murderers. It would be laughable if it wasn’t so dangerous.

How the far-right is blurring the lines between race and nationality to spread hate

As a British Nigerian, born and raised in London, I’ve always felt like my race supersedes my nationality. This country sees me as Black before it sees me as British, and that is a reality that I’m all too aware of. We saw indicators of this during last summer’s anti-immigration riots. Although far-right leader Tommy Robinson described the chaos as a result of “legitimate concerns” about migration (which, of course, isn’t exclusive to migrants of color), how come it was simply Black and Asian Brits — many of whom were born in this country — who bore the brunt of the violence through senseless mob beatings and Islamophobic attacks on mosques?

The interchangeable use of race and nationality is a tactic that is commonly used by bigots to vocalize their racism without the contemporary fear of being labelled the unutterable r-word: “racist”. To avoid being tainted with this forbidden word, they conflate race with nationality to disguise themselves as “true patriots” who are simply concerned about the socioeconomic effects of migration on their beloved Britain. We saw this play out after the tragic 2023 killing of students Grace O’Malley-Kumar and Barnaby Webber, and school caretaker Ian Coates in Nottingham when people took to social media to complain about the killer’s migrant background, while also making explicitly racist comments in the process.

Adolescence shows how commonplace youth violence, and in particular youth gender violence, can be in a society where boys and young men constantly have red pill content and narratives promoting toxic masculinity shoved down their throats by the Andrew Tates of the online world.

In a debate on GB News, former Labour MP Lloyd Russell-Moyle clashed with Martin Daubney, who claimed that Adolescence shouldn’t be shown in schools because it promotes the idea that “white working-class lads are rapists waiting to happen”, which, according to the bar graph from the Centre of Migration Control, he said was “far from the reality”. Russel-Moyle rightly called out Daubney’s interchangeable use of nationality and race. He said: “That graph has got nothing to do with race. White is a race, not a nationality. Get your facts right. Something like 95% of people in this country grew up in this country and go to the education system in this country, so these [migrant sex offenders make up] very small numbers in terms of the absolute numbers.”

He was right. If the argument is that immigrants are more likely to commit violent crimes against women and girls because of their lack of socialisation into British culture, then surely the emphasis shouldn’t be on the colour of Jamie’s skin, but on his nationality? By this (equally problematic) logic, Jamie’s character could have been written to be Polish, Turkish or Greek. He didn’t have to be Black, as many have suggested. Last year, Spanish-Brazilian national Marcus Arduini Monzo callously killed 14-year-old Daniel Anjorin in a horrific sword attack that shocked the nation, yet his migrant background was barely highlighted in news reports and on social media. Why? Because he is white.

Why the conversations about Adolescence should focus on how we can protect young people

Beyond the obvious theme of murder and the suspenseful one-shot format (each episode was impeccably shot in a singular continuous take), what makes Adolescence feel incredibly chilling is the implausibility of a seemingly innocent Jamie being a cold-blooded killer. Spoiler alert: We find out at the end of the first episode, through damning CCTV evidence, that Jamie is guilty (as I said, the show is definitely not a whodunnit). But, up until that point — and honestly, I’m ashamed to admit this — until episode 3, there is a part of me that believed that he didn’t do it and they got the wrong guy. This obviously seems ridiculous, given that a figure who happened to look exactly like Jamie was caught stabbing Katie in 4K. Stupidly, I guess, I bought into his pleas of innocence in episode 1. I mean, he seemed so innocent and so sincere.

But that’s what makes Adolescence so powerful. It shows how commonplace youth violence, and in particular youth gender violence, can be in a society where boys and young men constantly have red pill content and narratives promoting toxic masculinity shoved down their throats by the Andrew Tates of the online world.

Youth violence is not an ‘us vs. them’ problem. It’s a societal problem that impacts people of all races and cultural backgrounds.

In 2023, a Sky News investigation found that social media algorithms were pushing Andrew Tate’s videos onto teenage boys. Tate is notorious for being vocal about his misogynistic attitudes online. For over two years, Tate has faced rape, human trafficking and sexual misconduct charges in the UK and Romania. The notion of algorithms pushing red pill content like Tates’ is even alluded to in episode 4 by Jamie’s dad Eddie Miller (played remarkably by series co-creator Stephen Graham), who says that he came across red pill content just by looking for videos of exercise routines online.

There are valid concerns that online incel forums filled with red pill content are breeding grounds for terrorists and mass shooters, with one example being the 2021 Plymouth shootings, where 22-year-old Jake Davison, who was active online shot himself after killing five other people, including a three-year-old girl.

Preventing incidents like this is what we need to refocus our attention on. Youth violence is not an ‘us vs. them’ problem. It’s a societal problem that impacts people of all races and cultural backgrounds. By entertaining harmful anti-immigration rhetoric and false narratives about white victimhood, we risk not only a repeat of the violence against people of color during last summer’s riots but also the continued killing of young people, irrespective of the color of their skin. Now, this would be the real tragedy.

In a video about the making of Adolescence, co-creator Jack Thorne said: “We’re not trying to give answers. We’re not trying to lay blame particularly. It’s a really complicated time but we need to be talking about these things.” I think this is a key takeaway.

Contrary to what right-wing extremists would want us to believe, Adolescence is not trying to blame or “demonize” white boys. It brings to light a real issue with devastating real-life consequences for the families of both victims and perpetrators. It doesn’t claim to have all the answers, but at least it’s started a much-needed, long-overdue conversation. Now, all we need to do is keep it on the right track.

This article was originally published on Unbothered UK

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